It is really sad that there is really bad conflict management among people. I seen some of the beautiful relationships ended with some unresolved conflict.
Instead of tackling the problem:
1. I realise that people avoid the conflict ¾ of the time, hoping that it will solve itself.
2. People chose not to confront the matter
Conflict, created by man’s own deeds, need to be tackled by the same hands who created it.
1. Understanding of a friend is not enough, if action is not taken. (It is like analysing how the fire spreads so that you can stop the fire but you did not extinguish the fire.)
2. Outsiders should not take their hands on their matter because sides were been taken. (I support person A and you support person B.)